Among, Amongst, and Between

Many English learners find among, amongst, and between confusing because all relate to relationships, positions, or connections. Understanding the subtle differences can make your English more precise and natural.

1. Among

Among is used when referring to three or more things or people. It conveys being part of a group or surrounded by multiple items. It is the most commonly used form in modern English.

Examples:

• An elk stood among the trees. (Many trees, not just two.)

• She felt at ease among her colleagues at the conference.

• The new student quickly made friends among the classmates.

• Trust is essential among team members working on a project.

• “There was a sense of excitement among the crowd at the concert.”

Think of among as “in the middle of a group or crowd.”

2. Amongst

Amongst has the same meaning as among, but it is more formal or literary. It is often found in literature, speeches, or poetic writing rather than in everyday conversation.

Examples:

• He walked quietly amongst the tall grass.

• There was confusion amongst the guests at the wedding.

• Love and respect must flourish amongst neighbors to build a strong community.

• “Amongst all the chaos, she remained calm and focused.”

Note: In modern casual English, among is usually preferred, but amongst adds a slightly elevated or traditional tone.

3. Between

Between is used when referring to two things or people. It emphasizes a direct relationship or distinction.

Examples:

• Anne’s shop is between the library and a diner.

• The secret was shared between Tom and Maria.

• You must decide between tea and coffee.

• “Negotiations between the two companies lasted for weeks before an agreement was reached.”

Special Note: Between can also be used with more than two items when they are considered individually:

• The treaty was signed between the five nations, each taking specific responsibilities.

Quick Tip to Remember

• Among / Amongst = three or more items, part of a group. Amongst is formal/literary.

• Between = two items, direct relationships or distinctions (or more when items are considered individually).

Mini Quiz:

1. There was a lively debate ______ the students about school rules.

2. The treasure was hidden ______ the rocks in the cave.

3. She walked quietly ______ the trees, enjoying the morning sun.(Answers: 1 = among, 2 = among, 3 = amongst)

Using among, amongst, and between correctly can make your English clearer and more expressive. Including authentic examples helps learners see how these words appear naturally in speech and writing.